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67 things I've learned in 67 years


November is my birthday month, and I look at it as "my month". There is no doubt this post will be one of many, about me. Since this entire blog site is about my life and thoughts, I am sure you are wondering how I am going to up the "me" factor. It is early in the month and only time will tell how this will unfold. For today, the first post of November, I am sharing, "67 things I've learned in 67 years". 

1.  Life is not always fair.

2.  You must give to receive.

3.  Friends are some of the most important people in your life.

4.  If you really want something, never give up getting it.

5.  You are never too old.

6.  Always get your bologna sliced fresh, it's amazing that way.

7.  Do something special for yourself every day. 

8.  Always say thank you.

9.  If you are thinking about someone let them know they are in your thoughts.

10. Never take anything for granted.

11. Everyone leads different lives, and you have to live yours.

12. It is extremely important that girls are educated.

13. You can fix anything by doing a google search.

14. Have no expectations.

15. Only get involved in things that matter to you. 

16. Gossip is never good.

17. Compliment a person. 

18. We can problem solve and overthink things when we are supposed to be sleeping. 

19. Some things will never get better.

20. Act on your ideas before you have a chance to talk yourself out of it.

21. There are obstacles you can't overcome, adjust. 

22. Homemade cookies are the kindest gift you can give. 

23. If you are good at something, teach others.

24. If you aren't good at something, learn from others.

25. Write a message in every card you give. Make the words come from your heart.

26. Not everyone will like your ideas, don't take it personally.

27. You never know what is going on behind closed doors.  

28. Don't focus on the sleep you didn't get. It will ruin your day if you think you are tired. 

29. Drink coffee the way you like it. Remake it if it doesn't suit you.

30. Take time to enjoy mother nature every day.

31. It is okay to say "no".

32. Time is meaningless when you are retired. 

33. Do what you want to do when you want to do it.

34. Time change is annoying, but letting it happen without a fuss, is the best way to adjust. 

35. Purging as you age, is freeing.

36. Give someone a random gift, just because it feels good to do that. 

37. Find a cause to support and be generous.

38. Share your talent.

39. If you haven't used something in a year, get rid of it.

40. If you haven't worn something in a year, donate it.

41. Times are tough right now and people need our help through it. 

42. It is okay to eat breakfast food at any meal.

43. Laughing is the best medicine. 

44. Someone is always listening to you, make sure your words are kind.

45. Smile and wave to every highway worker that is holding a sign. 

46. If you are learning to knit, knit every day.

47. It is important as we age that we find an activity that will keep us strong. 

48. Find a community of people that you enjoy being around, they will enrich your life.

49. Share your wisdom, only when asked for it.

50. Purge your fridge and deep freeze on a regular basis. 

51. Design a "unique" experience from time to time. 

52. In retirement, go to bed when you want and get up when you want.

53. Feel your feelings and move on.

54. It is surprising how quickly a stranger can become a treasured friend.

55. Take responsibility for your part in it. 

56. When talking to someone, use their name and make good eye contact.

57. Have fun, just like children.

58. Be on time.

59. Once retired you can get dressed when you are ready and only then.

60. Not everyone wants to see your pictures on your phone.

61. Don't be afraid to ask for help. 

62. God gives you what you need, not necessarily what you want.

63. Grieving is not time limited.

64. When you are out for a walk, smile and speak to every person you meet.  

65. Once you try to control a situation, it starts to control you.

66. Learn from your mistakes.  

67. Everything happens for a reason.

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  1. Thanks for 67 reminders for going through life…

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  2. Wow…just opened emails for quick Sun catch up and received your blog…what a gift you shared. You have definitely lived a full life with lots of life’s lessons learnt…thanks for putting them into words. Enjoy your “me” month and thanks for sharing your smiles and joy.

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