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Mom's Day

Today is the day we celebrate "Moms". Anna Jarvis was the founder of Mother's Day in the United States and the leading advocate for Mother's Day in Canada. Anna wanted to commemorate her mother, who was a peace activist and cared for wounded soldiers during the American Civil War. As the founder of the modern version of Mother's Day, Anna fought against the commercialization of the holiday, working to protect it from "the hordes of money schemers". On May 8, 1914, the US congress passed a law designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day. Canada soon followed and recognized the first Mother's Day in our country in 1915. 

The true meaning of Mother's Day is "a special day to recognize the women who have given us so much". We celebrate Mother's Day to honor the accomplishments of the women in our lives. It's also a time to cherish the relationship between a child and a mother. 

I recently got a text from a new friend that has been diagnosed with lung cancer. She said, "I'm determined to stay positive, it's what we do as mother's right". We sure do, heaven forbid we do not stay positive for everyone else. Being a pillar of strength is what a mom is when it comes to her children. 

I am very fortunate at 67 years old to still celebrate with my mom on Mothers' Day. History is repeating itself in my family, because my mom had her mom until she was 75. My Dad had his mom until he was 73. I think that is absolutely incredible. I have to add both of those remarkable ladies had a sound mind until they drew their last breath. 

Today, even if you aren't a mom, you are like a mom to someone. If you have a heavenly mom, you know someone that is your earthly mom. The definition of a mom can have so many descriptors. I like the part about celebrating the accomplishments of the women in our lives. Anna's mom was a peace activist and cared for wounded soldiers in the Civil war. I agree with Anna, her mom's accomplishment should be celebrated. No matter what a woman has done in her life, they would all say their best accomplishment was to have children. Women each have a unique ability, that should never be underestimated. I don't think we recognize women's accomplishments enough. Today, ask yourself what your best accomplishment is, and then ask someone else the same question. Today is the day you need to celebrate you. 


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  1. AnonymousMay 12, 2024 at 11:38 AM

    Loved this! Happy Mother’s Day to your wonderful mom and also to you Faye!

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