Today my mom turns 88 years old. How many 65-year-old people have the honor to be able to say that. I realize that many of you reading this aren't as lucky as I am and have to visit your mom in a care home or make a stop at the cemetery to celebrate your mom's birthday. As my mom ages I think of how wonderful it is that she is able to live in her own home, make her own decisions, be basically independent and continues to have a strong mind. I tell Mom she has to hold it together because she has seniors looking after her and that can't be good.
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One of my favorite pictures of us. Enjoying the Brier |
My mom doesn't have perfect health and never has but she certainly is a tough ole bird. In January of this year, fire took mom's home and all of her belongings. We realize they are only things. It soon became evident, the biggest thing that fire took from Mom was her way of living and her close connection with the other residents. Mom lived in a community housing for seniors for 17 years. She could go out the door and have a chat with other residents at any point in the day. She was basically the Walmart Greeter if anyone new moved in or if there was an event happening in the Villa. All of that has changed for mom and the other residents since the fire, as they now live in various homes throughout the community. We had assumed that Mom would live in the Villa until time came for her to move into care. But that was not meant to be.
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One of the last pictures taken at the Villa |
Through the darkness comes sunshine and that for mom and I is how it has brought us closer. We have learned the importance of phoning, texting and emailing. We are alike in that we love road trips; destination unknown is fine with us. We are both coffee lovers and have a sweet tooth which makes for a nice stop at a coffee shop. She shops and I watch. Believe me we have shopped since the fire.
Since Mom has moved to her new home, she has renewed her love of doing puzzles. She belongs to a knitting group. The "Knit Wits" get together every Monday to make prayer shawls for community members who have lost someone, enduring illness or needed a hug of a shawl. This little group have given out over 800 shawls in 6 years. Mom lives across the street from her Bestie of 80 years. She loves to shop and when she has a shopping cart in front of her, she is gone. Mom is an avid curling fan and follower of the Blue Jays.
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A dream come true to meet her boy "Brad" |
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Mom is so photogenic |
Your mom is a very special lady. I consider her my summer mom, as I spent so many summers down in Carievale. I’ve always loved her energy & zest for life. Do hope I’ve inherited some of that from her. ♥️
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